well, bethany dear told me to update this monster. i haven't for AGES. i'm absolutely pathetic. i figure, since nobody probably looks at this anyways, i can ramble.
i don't know why my personal life is any of anyone's business. honestly, do i ask every single one of you what you do with your boyfriends? no. so all of a sudden, kayley gets a boyfriend, people's assumed constant that i would forever be single is gone, and everyone's giving me advice i had tried to give them three years ago and had spit back in my face. i understand that they might "care", but insinuating that i'm going to blow off morals i've held dear for my entire life and not know what i'm getting into is awful. i trust who i'm with, and i care about him very much, and for people to suggest such things hurts me and our relationship. sorry, but giving me the advice i gave you ages ago that you completely disrespected doesn't make you any sort of heroic friend. i wish you all understood that i am a strong independent person, and that i can stand up for myself. i'm not submissive, i can handle myself in situations. please respect me in that manner. because to suggest different really hurts. it really does.